I understand your frustration for the situation you are describing but there are no alternative options. Most programs whether or not it's ESO or WOW or any program has a predetermined location for external files.
Sometimes you can install programs to a custom location meaning C:\ProgramName instead of C:\Program Files (x86)\ProgramName but normally you can't change any of the predetermined locations for specific files used by the program itself.
For that reason if you want help then you have to be willing to work with someone and answer questions or provide information and screenshots. If you feel you have no time or patience to do so then you will continue to have your intermittent issues where the mods work sometimes and not others.
If you do decide you are willing to discuss this then Minion is what will be used, the Addons folder under MyDocuments, and I would need two screen shots similar to these. Although you don't have to draw any boxes.
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